* It's not really possible to distinguish between a first startup
and a restart inside app_server itself. Due to the new BServer
setup, the same port will still be used, too. So, change the
messages sent to just "AppServerStarted".
* Since the message is sent out much later than the port is created,
by the time applications see it, the app_server may have already
been started a while and applications may have connected to it.
So, check if we really need to reconnect in BApplication before
actually trying to do that.
* BWindow now starts with updates disabled, so they must be
enabled after reconnecting.
After this commit, basic app_server restart functionality works again;
it's restarted automatically by launch_daemon after dying or being killed
and applications automatically reconnect. However, some problems still
linger (e.g. Terminal doesn't always recreate its windows, colors
on the Desktop look wrong, missing desktop background image, etc.)