Add default spacing for Layouts (#5614)

* introduce B_USE_DEFAULT_SPACING, which works somewhat like B_SIZE_UNSET and B_ALIGN_HORIZONTAL_UNSET
* introduce static float BControlLook::ComposeItemSpacing(float spacing), which checks uses be_control_look->DefaultItemSpacing().
* modify layouts to use BControlLook::ComposeItemSpacing() in SetInsets and SetSpacing methods.
* default insets are still 0, 0, 0, 0, but can be set to default spacing by passing B_USE_DEFAULT_SPACING
* I've found two regressions, patches incoming, please report others on #5614.


git-svn-id: file:///srv/svn/repos/haiku/haiku/trunk@38512 a95241bf-73f2-0310-859d-f6bbb57e9c96

headers/os/interface/GridLayoutBuilder.h

@@ -9,9 +9,9 @@
 
 class BGridLayoutBuilder {
 public:
-								BGridLayoutBuilder(
-									float horizontalSpacing = 0.0f,
-									float verticalSpacing = 0.0f);
+								BGridLayoutBuilder(float horizontal
+										= B_USE_DEFAULT_SPACING,
+									float vertical = B_USE_DEFAULT_SPACING);
 								BGridLayoutBuilder(BGridLayout* layout);
 								BGridLayoutBuilder(BGridView* view);